8 – When it’s time to start your healing business…

Episode 8 – When the idea of starting your healing business paralyzes you.

When Starting Your Healing Business Feels Terrifying: What Your Fear Is Actually Telling You

There comes a time in every healer’s journey when the call shifts: from inner healing, from gathering tools and learning, into the next initiation—offering your work to others, professionally. Not just occasionally. Not just “if someone happens to ask.” But truly, fully, standing in the sacred seat of “I do this. I offer this.”

And that’s where many of us freeze.

Not because we’re not ready. Not because we’re not gifted. But because stepping into professional healing work — into being seen, being paid, and being responsible for a healing system — touches every single old wound at once.

Today, I want to speak tenderly to that frozen place. To name what’s actually happening underneath the surface. To offer you a way forward that honors the wisdom of your body and the call of your soul/

Why You Might Be Frozen at the Threshold

First, let’s be clear: your fear isn’t random.
You are not procrastinating because you’re lazy. You’re not stuck because you’re “not meant” to do this work.
You’re feeling frozen because your body — your beautiful, intelligent nervous system — is reading this transition as a survival threat.

• Being seen might mean being judged, exiled, laughed at.
• Being paid might mean being responsible, being held to impossible standards, being exposed as “not good enough.”
• Building a business might mean admitting that you care about this deeply, and risking failure.

Of course it feels terrifying. Of course your system wants to shut it down before it even begins.

And yet.
Something in you knows it’s time.

The Invisible Blocks Underneath “Starting My Business”

When I sat down to record an episode about “starting your healing business,” I found myself tripping over 55 hidden blocks all at once. It wasn’t clean or simple. It was messy, emotional, overwhelming.
Maybe you recognize some of them:

• “I can’t start without a perfect website.”
• “I need to figure out insurance, taxes, legal structures first.”
• “If I get visible, people I know will judge me.”
• “If I try and fail, it will be humiliating.”
• “I’m not ‘healed enough’ to help others.”

Each of these thoughts can spiral you into freeze. But underneath them all is a deeper truth: starting your business isn’t just a practical step. It’s an identity shift. A reclamation. A visibility wound surfacing. A spiritual initiation.

This isn’t a detour. It’s the work.

Healing and Business Are Two Parallel Journeys

It’s tempting to think “Once I heal enough, then I’ll feel ready to start my business.” But in truth, starting your business is a healing journey.

Every visibility fear? An invitation into self-compassion.
Every freeze response? A place to offer your nervous system more safety.
Every wobble in your skills? A chance to ground deeper into your own competence.
Your healing skills and your business-building skills are sisters. They grow each other.
When you build your healing business, you aren’t “selling” yourself. You are creating a system that allows your unique love, your very particular magic, to land reliably with the people who need it most.
A website, an offer, a structure—these are just containers for the love that already lives in you.

Business as Devotional System

The question isn’t “Am I good enough to have a healing business?”

The question is:
How can I build a system that allows my particular brand of love to reach the right people at the right time?

Maybe that looks like a cozy home office where neighbors drop by for reiki. Maybe it’s a structured online membership for artists and visionaries. Maybe it’s private, deep sessions with a few clients a month, quietly transforming lives.

It doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. It doesn’t have to be big, flashy, or “successful” by anyone else’s metrics.

It has to be real. It has to be aligned. It has to allow you to show up steadily, imperfectly, with your true medicine.

Your business can be a prayer. Your business can be a ritual. Your business can be an act of devotion to the love that moves through you.

If You Don’t Trust Yourself Yet, That’s Okay

Many healers freeze because deep down, they don’t yet trust themselves to be reliable practitioners.
Maybe you’ve healed yourself, but you’re not sure yet if you can reliably help others. Maybe you’re scared that if someone comes in skeptical, angry, or shut down, you won’t know what to do. Maybe you’re afraid that a “bad session” means you’re a fraud.

These are real fears. They need tending. Becoming a professional healer means becoming someone who can hold space no matter what state your client walks in with.
Someone who trusts the work enough to keep going even when it’s messy.
Someone who doesn’t collapse in self-doubt when challenged.
Someone who knows that healing is a mystery, and your job is to serve it, not control it.

This kind of steadiness is built through practice, not perfection.
This is why I created Healer Embodied—to give new healers the real-world practice and mentorship they need to become trustworthy vessels for their own magic.

Because when you know you can hold the work, everything else—visibility, marketing, offers—becomes so much easier.

How to Start When You’re Still Scared

If you’re frozen, start here:
Name the fear. Whisper it out loud. “I’m scared people will judge me.”
Acknowledge your body. “Of course my nervous system feels scared. Visibility used to mean danger.”
Find the smallest real step. Not the perfect website. Maybe it’s offering one session to a friend. Maybe it’s listing yourself on Google Maps. Maybe it’s claiming, in your own heart, “I am a healer.”
Build a system for your love to land. One simple step at a time.
The goal isn’t to “be ready.” The goal is to build the structures that let your soul’s work meet the world—even if your hands are shaking a little at first.

You Are Not Behind. You Are Not Broken.

If you are frozen, you are not failing. You are not “late.” You are standing at a sacred threshold.
You are standing at the point where the personal healing journey stretches open into a communal, professional one.
Where your gifts stop being just for you, and start rippling outward.
Where your imperfections don’t disqualify you—they deepen your empathy, your credibility, your capacity to hold others through their own messy journeys.

The world does not need perfect healers. The world needs real ones.
Ones who have walked the path themselves. Ones who know what it is to freeze, to doubt, to feel raw and scared—and who choose, again and again, to stay present.

You are already becoming that healer.

Maybe this is your sign. Maybe this is your moment to take one small, sacred step forward.
Not when you’re perfectly ready. Not when the fear is gone. But now. In tenderness. In trust. In the real, beautiful imperfection of being human and holy at the same time.
Your love is needed. Your system is waiting to be built. Your people are already looking for you.
Begin.